South Africa- different lifestyle...

I am sitting here looking at the chaos go go go go go society of the Western World and I am thinking about how different it will be in South Africa. I am looking at the fast pace or our society and how much I am a product and a part of it. Then I look at the people I know from Cape Town and people here who have been there so very much. Do you know what I see? Such a different lifestyle!!! The different lifestyle almost bugs me when I want to get something done and it is more about relationship than finishing my task...it takes a real choice to go with the realtionships instead of the task. It is interesting how much task-oriented I am BUT then I see that my heart is totally FOR relationship and fellowshipping. Have you ever had a person drive you crazy with his or her talking and being and not getting to the point? That is exactly what I mean. My dad used to do that with me. Yet I have admired him for always being able to sit down and talka nd have reationship while fellowshipping. I guess I will talk about that one more after going to Cape Town in 17 days!!! so long!